Wednesday, June 13

Learning from my kids

I usually blog about being tired from all the running around. I don't want to sound like a complainer. I love my life. I cannot imagine having a different life, or not having my kids. Yes, I am busy most of the time, and yes, there are moments when I can't seem to get enough rest. But I wouldn't trade it for anything.

The biggest lessons in life I've learned from my kids. Even though they are young, seeing the world thru their eyes makes it all brand new.

My daughter, Candace, has such a beautiful heart. It never ceases to amaze me how kind and thoughtful she is. I have learned a great deal from her, specially how to forgive and move on.
Sometimes it's easier to hold on to a grudge, isn't it?. Aren't we suppose to forgive? I remember the day I found out I was pregnant. I prayed for a daughter, and I was blessed with her. She loves everyone, and always tries to make sure everyone is happy.

Braden (the one on my lap in the photo) is such a happy soul. Always smiling, from the moment he opens his eyes. You can see pure joy in his eyes, every time he discovers something new, every time he gets something accomplished. He loves life, and seeing the world thru his eyes makes my life such an incredible blessing.

There is so much wisdom in Cade's eyes. Every time he looks at me, I wonder if he can read my thoughts. He is more laid back, more cautious, alway observing, paying attention. He has a temper, though, and it's not afraid to show it. He loves books, and he is so careful with them. He enjoys being outside, and loves music and giggles every time he hears something he likes.

I wasn't planning for twins. It was quite a surprise when the doctor said there were 2 in there. But now, I can't imagine not being their mother. I think God gives all moms a little something extra to help us deal with the difficulties of parenthood. Those of us with multiples get an extra dose and an extra pair of angels to carry us thru the hard times.

Every day I'm reminded that I'm setting an example for them. They are going to learn from me how to be a sibling, a spouse, a son/daughter. But what I'm learning from them is priceless. They make me a better person, simply by loving me unconditionally.

I've been dealing with sinus/allergies all day today. Can it get any hotter? geez. Not sure how much training I'll get today, between sneezing and blowing my nose, I'm not sure how much running I can get done.

5 comments:

Chuck Gautier said...

What an awesome blog entry. Very heartwarming. Okay, you can start whining again! Ditto on the sinus crud!

cjonesrun said...

You got my tears flowing on this one...GREAT Thoughts from a GREAT MOM!
Cheryl

The Miller's Blog said...

That is an awesome blog! Ditto what Cheryl said!

Christa said...

Have you ever thought about becoming a writer? You have such a way with words and so many beautiful thoughts to talk about. Really, you could or should be a writer.

cjonesrun said...

Ditto what Christa says!!! I have admired your writing skills throughout our blogging deal. Maybe you could do a book on how to survive the challenges of being the mother of twins while training for a marathon after wearing steel toed boots all day. H-m-m-m-m...there should be some "catchy" title we could come up with.  :)